About my self :
My name is huda and I am a student at princess NORA university in the fifth level at the faculty of business administration . I started my life with big dreams I want to be a successful and influential person I would like to be a good speaker in forums and seminars. I love the business sector and I seek to gain experience and knowledge through my studies until I achieve my dreams. I chose this department because I see in it what combines my passion and ambition. I love the business world in all its sectors and enjoy its study, every day learning new thing and new idea ,preparing business plan and Feasibility study , how to chose the market and your audience all of these title Attracts me and draws my attention , I really want to finish my studies after I have acquired enough experience, and start realizing my dream of being a good speaker in my field .
About the speaker:
I attended a lecture on Monday ,29 of October at the theatre of faculty of business administration . the lecturer is Maha Al hudaithi . Maha is a successful woman with a vision and a dream. She talked about her ambition and how she took a long time to reach it . When she finished her computer information system studies at prince Sultan University she decided to study management for a master’s degree but she knew about marketing communication and its sciences and found her inspiration in it so she decided to study it , maha is a risk taker started from she chose another field to study it which is different from her department and chose unordinary field for women . she inspired me when she advice us to love what you do Because I believe that when a person do what he loves, he will be able to achieves the best results.
About the skills:
The good speaker should have some important characteristic . to support him , reach the object and convey the idea to listeners , this characteristic may include : passion , leadership skills ,communication skills, seeking opportunities ,confidence , risk taker , personal development , speaking skills ,focusing the main title that he talk about and The ability to engage in dialogue . MAHA AL hudaithi was a good speaker she applied these characteristic successfully. she influence us by her skills to achieve her dreams . and the most important skills that impact on me : communication skills and confidence . because I want to be a famous speaker in my field I know how much its important to learn these skills by the right way and apply it in my work .
communication skills :Can be defined as a set of skills that the individual uses to rely on to successfully convey the idea or deliver certain information to another person through various means, either through written text messages or through oral messages or through body language such as facial expressions, etc. This skill is one of the most important skills for a good speaker. Whatever the subject is talking about or the idea he wants to deliver. The audience will not understand what the speaker wants to convey. The speaker must be frank, unbiased, clear: in the sense that there is no chance of misunderstandings, and this requires verifying every word and phrase used. Briefness and abbreviations: This is by deleting useless information, which is just a filler plus does not achieve the goal of communication .
So the good speaker should improve these skills to reach his goals , In this video we discuss how to develop this skill :
The second most important skill is confidence, if The speaker seeks to excellence, he should trust himself first, and what he says Second, and this confidence must appear on his actions and words, but it does not reach the degree of vanity, and things that help the person to self-confidence, to overcome the anxiety and tension, and not to exhaust himself before the dumping, physical readiness is of great importance, and to trust his abilities, especially in the subject that will talk about him, and that he is familiar with all aspects, says Bob Jerry born: (Talk like you’re talking to one person, and do it even if you’re talking to hundreds at the same time). without it the speaker’s quality will not be complete , it is acquired, developed and not born with a human when he born, so any speaker can develop this skill by several ways such as : Training – Search for what is new in all areas – Reading – Follow up cultural and economic news – Time management – Managing personal crises with a focus – not making decisions in difficult circumstances , All these points and others help increase self-confidence so that the speaker can stand on the stage confidently and speak boldly
In this video five steps to How to NOT Get Nervous Speaking in Front of People and being confidence :
In conclusion, everyone in this life has a certain dream that he wishes to reach. Some feel that he does not have a specific goal or dream. Sometimes we need to stand with ourselves and think about our situation. What do we love? Where do we find our passion? And what satisfies this passion. Always look for yourself, discover his likes and try to reinforce him with the necessary skills .
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